Sunday, April 20, 2014

'Mama, Get Me Away From Around Here!'

Almost one year after I first wrote about Ka’nard Allen, his story—and the stories of several other children whose lives are connected to his—remain a searing example of how pervasive gun violence in our nation’s cities is killing, injuring, and traumatizing our children. As Pulitzer Prize-winning New Orleans journalist Julia Cass reports for the Children’s Defense Fund, on May 29, 2012, Ka’nard celebrated his 10th birthday at his grandmother’s house in the Central City neighborhood of New Orleans. He and his friends and family members were playing games in the front yard and on the porch. “We was having a party and then it’s a shooting,” Ka’nard said. Four young men carrying guns and an AK-47 ran up and unleashed a volley of bullets. Police said they were attempting to kill members of a rival group at or near the party. Ka’nard felt the sting as he was struck in the calf and on the side of his neck. 

 His mother, Tynia Allen, saw blood running down his neck. To get help she had to step over Ka’nard’s 5-year-old cousin Brianna Allen’s lifeless body on the porch. The reach and power of the assault rifle was so great that a bullet fired near the party also struck and killed Shawanna Pierce, 33, in her car at a stop sign three blocks away, leaving three young boys without a mother. 

That year, along with many before it, New Orleans had one of the highest per capita murder rates of any city in America—close to 95 percent of them committed with guns. The carnage at Ka’nard’s party, as well as at other shootings before and since, sent out waves of fear, grief and anger that linger on in the lives of the children affected.

Shawanna Pierce’s youngest son, now 3, doesn’t remember his mother. But her two older boys, Kelby, now 12, and Kolby, 8, began to cry when asked about their mother. Their maternal grandmother, still deeply grieving herself, asked them to recall things they did with their mother, who worked in the coding department of a local hospital. Disney World, she prompted, the zoo, the Ponchatoula Strawberry Festival. “I can’t,” Kelby said. “I’m too sad.” Both boys have photos of their mother on their cell phone cases. Their grades suffered, although now, almost two years later, the boys’ school work is beginning to improve.
Ka’nard became frightened. “I always think somebody wants to shoot me,” he said. Less than a year after he was shot at his birthday party, he was shot again—in the cheek—when he and his mother went to a Mother’s Day parade last May. Two gunmen fired into the crowd, wounding 19 people, including Ka’nard and a 10-year-old girl. 

“He panicked,” his mother said. “He said, ‘Mama, get me away from around here!’”
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The body of Londyn Unique Samuels, 1, lies in the casket at her funeral as her sister, Paris, 3, looks up at her. Londyn was killed by a gun on a street in New Orleans while in the arms of her babysitter. (Photo by Chris Granger,Nola.com /The Times- Picayune/Landov)
That could be the cry of every child and teenager growing up in a violent neighborhood. Some never have the chance to grow up. In the last six months of 2013 in New Orleans, a 1-year-old girl was shot to death on the street in the arms of a babysitter, an 11-year-old girl was killed in bed by stray bullets entering her home, and a 7-month-old boy was shot in the head while riding in a car with his father. 

Even children who are not directly hit by gun violence suffer the collateral damage of living in an unsafe environment saturated with guns that are routinely used to settle conflicts or to exact retaliation. A striking number of low-income children in New Orleans have witnessed gun violence and murders, according to a 2011-2012 screening of children between the ages of 11 and 15 who participated in a teen pregnancy prevention program. Of the 700 interviewed by the Institute of Women and Ethnic Studies, 29 percent had witnessed assaults with guns; 14 percent had witnessed gun homicides. More than half cited concern about “personal safety” as a source of worry, more than twice the number who worried about “being unloved.” Not surprisingly, the children reported symptoms of post-traumatic stress and depression at a much higher rate—about one-third—than typical teenagers.
The Children’s Bureau of New Orleans, a non-profit agency that offers mental health counseling, runs a program called Project LAST—the Loss And Survival Team—that works with some of the city’s children who have had multiple exposures to gun violence. “They’ve had loved ones murdered by guns, they’ve seen people carrying guns, they’ve been threatened by guns, they’ve seen a dead body in the street—three or four different exposures to gun violence,” said its president and CEO Paulette Carter.

The trauma these children suffer—depression, anxiety, anger, post-traumatic stress disorder—is especially hard to ameliorate because “we can’t remove the threat,” Carter said. “The best thing you can do for a child who has experienced a traumatic event is to make sure they are safe afterwards. But for kids and gun violence in New Orleans, you can’t reinstate the safety, and this makes the recovery process difficult. We can’t assure children that this won’t happen again to somebody they know or they won’t see guns again or hear gunshots because they probably will.” She said that “a lot of kids we work with have a sense of hopelessness that things are never going to change.” Their schoolwork is affected, as is their potential to go on to live productive adult lives. 

Most of the victims and the perpetrators of gun violence in New Orleans are 15- to 25-year-old Black males with low educational achievement. According to a U.S. Department of Justice study of homicides in New Orleans in 2009 and 2010, many of the perpetrators and victims knew each other; some were childhood friends. Most grew up in the city’s poor and more violent neighborhoods and had easy access to guns, legal or illegal. Under Louisiana law, anyone 18 or older can purchase a gun unless he or she is a felon.
“I think a lot of it has to do with the world they come up in—the environment, the social norms of their peers, the normalization of violence as the way to deal with conflict,” said Jamaal Weathersby, pastor of the New Hope Baptist Church in the Central City neighborhood. “They don’t see the relevance of school. They’re not thinking there is an opportunity for them to get a good job. I don’t think many of them can see past the block.”

David Kennedy, director of the Center for Crime Prevention and Control at the John Jay College of Criminal Justice in New York and the City of New Orleans’ consultant for reducing group violence, said that most of the murders are committed by undisciplined, random leaderless groups of high rate offenders often organized around neighborhoods or blocks—and are not about money but about “personal friction, respect and disrespect, retaliation and vendettas. It is so important that they literally live and die for it.” Dr. Kenneth Hardy, a professor of Family Therapy at Drexel University in Philadelphia, believes that the reason disrespect is so often a trigger point relates to the devaluation—the “constant lacerations to dignity”—of poor young Black males who are considered a threat and a problem, with the worst rather than the best expected of them. 

Kennedy said that alienation from law enforcement underlies personal retaliation. “If representatives of the law in your neighborhood are seen not only as not legitimate but as the enemy, then when you have a grievance or somebody you know got shot, you don’t call the cops. You get a gun and friends and do it yourself.” A scathing 2011 report by the U.S. Department of Justice found that New Orleans police officers “too frequently use excessive force and conduct illegal stops, searches and arrests with impunity,” almost exclusively in Black neighborhoods. City, state and federal law enforcement agencies in New Orleans recently began focusing more on identifying and prosecuting members of the violent criminal groups committing most of the murders, including the four men charged with killing Brianna Allen and Shawanna Pierce. This strategy appears to be paying off since the city’s murders dropped by 20 percent in 2013.
Ka’nard still sees a psychologist because “I get mad real fast,” he said. His mother said he doesn’t like to go places by himself. But he attends a school he likes, has a mentor, has taken trips thanks to a local foundation, and plays drums in his school’s band. This year he was looking forward to marching in some of the city’s Mardi Gras parades—an event that should be a simple childhood pleasure, but one Ka’nard, like so many of our nation’s children, can no longer take for granted.

37 comments:

  1. This article is very heartbreaking. It is sad that so many of our children do not feel safe in their own homes and neighborhoods. When most people think of home, they think of a safe haven. A place where they feel most comfortable. Somewhere that they feel most safe and can shut out the outside world. Unfortunately for children like the ones mentioned in this article, home is just as dangerous as being on the street. The outside world has invaded their personal space. What is even more sad, is that these children have gotten used to it and simply view these incidences as being a way of life and that should not be the case. In the portion of this article where retaliation is being discussed, that hit close to home. Often times when people feel the need to retaliate and go looking to end someone's life for whatever reason, innocent people end up getting hurt or even killed in the process. The statistics for minority children and young adult deaths are growing astronomically. Also in the part about law enforcement being seen as the enemy I feel that this is sad, but I cannot really blame them for feeling this way. I know a lot of people who do not trust law enforcement in large part because of their personal interactions and experiences with them. I know plenty of people who are pulled over by the police frequently because of the type of car they drive, or being in a neighborhood that others may feel they do not belong in. Also, when I was in high school, one of my closest friends was shot and killed at a party. Perhaps this is just my viewpoint because I knew him, but I do not feel that the police did everything possible to find the person who killed him. To them, he was just another black kid dead, and that is what is the norm so why break a sweat to solve the case. This very mindset of law enforcement, is what makes people feel that retaliation is their only option. Maybe if they actually showed that they cared, crime rates could decrease. All of this is why Freedom Schools and all other movements that target low income minorities are so essential. Being able to mentor and change the lives of young people will determine those children's future.

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  2. Just as Jackie stated, this article is very heartbreaking. The picture of the 1 year old girl should be sent to every politician who believes that there should not be any common sense gun regulation. I could barely stand to look at this picture. It is so sad that many children cannot even sleep in the comfort of their own little beds without harm. Until this issue directly affects the lives of those politicians they will not truly realize the impact of the propaganda they are spreading about gun regulation. How many more people and children must die before people wake up?

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    1. Just as everyone else stated I too think this article is very heartbreaking. It was such a tough article to read. While reading I kept thinking to myself wow this is really happening to children. These are young people that can't even enjoy a party on the porch because they are worrying about being shot. These kids can't even go to a parade without the fear of someone opening fire. This all really blows my mind. I keep wondering when is enough enough? It's sad that children do not have the control of the community they have to live in and often times the parents don't either. Most of the time these parents don't want their children growing up around this but what else is there for them to do when they are making minimum wage. I agree with Jackie when she said that programs like Freedom School are very important. We are given the platform to really make a difference in our scholars life. We are opening their eyes to new things and that is amazing!

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  3. This article hits home with my community right now. Last night a student in the 9th grade was killed because of gang violence. Students I work with in a leadership program were traumatized by the events that lead to the death of their friend. It's sad when you cannot feel safe in the area that you lay your head. Many of us are blessed to have safe homes with parents that love us, but not everyone has that story. The stories that Mrs. Edelman shared are examples of why guns laws have to change.When I think of how common stories like this are across the country and world I'm reminded of how great the work is that we do.

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  4. Kids in my neighborhood knew the sounds of bullets very well. Bullets meant ducking away from windows and sleeping in back rooms on the floor in case of stray shots. when I was a small child, I saw a man shoot his girlfriend outside my house. I doubt, however, that it compares in anyway to being shot, twice. Even with the underlying fear that constantly permeated my chidlhood memories, I don't think I ever felt as fearful as Ka'nard. And in a community where the police aren't much help, would we be surprised if Ka'nard grew up angry or resentful? I do believe that stricter gun policies are important, but from reading this article, it seems like so much more is at stake. The most interesting point was the commonality of low education amongst the offenders, and their lack of desire for school being directly correlated to a sense of devaluation. These young men need to be affirmed, and early. They need to feel like someone is interested in their wellbeing. They need educators who show them how education gains them respect that can never be taken away. This article simply confirms, for me, that the Freedom Schools culture is exactly what young people need these days. It might not be an overnight revolution, but the force that Freedom plays in the community is integral to saving our young people.

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    1. Leslie, I appreciate your response to this heartbreaking column. The Westside of Chicago is very similar to the picture you have painted of your community and the one described in this article. I fear for my male students because at the age of 10 and 11 I can already see them turning away from their education and leaning more towards violence. I try to tell them all the time how much I value them and how important they are and sometimes they listen, but when you are surrounded by negativity it is easy to forget your worth. I hope to one day bring a Freedom School to my community because I believe that the model works and can transform lives. Hopefully those children not involved in Freedom School will be able to see their worth and make better decisions.

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  5. Wow! This column is not only heartbreaking but challenging to grasp as well. As a social worker, I am often exposed to individuals of this population. It is heart wrenching to hear the stories of young children who live in such an environment and have no control over it. Unfortunately, their parents are unable to control it as well. Working 40 hours a week and making minimum wage does not necessarily provide you with the perfect neighborhood or lifestyle. As Myah stated, politicians are not directly affected by these deadly events and until they are, nothing is going to change. As a social worker, I work with children of this population on a daily basis. They have discussed how their environment impacts their chances of being successful and accomplishing their dreams. It bothers me that children cannot be comfortable in the environments in which they were born. When will we put down the guns and pick up an education?

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    1. I agree with you Victoria, a safe neighborhood is more than a 40 hour work schedule making minimum wage. We have to provided a fair wage, and affordable services for individuals and families. Its time we put down guns and embrace education.

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    2. This column bring so emotions the surface. Not only does it break your heart but it evokes anger. What can we do??? Our children are not only sleeping with one eye open but they are growing up entirely too fast. It’s just sickening to know that laying in your bed at night a child is at risk of losing his or her life. The most frustrating part is we as communities aren’t changing. Parents are unable to protect their children while still dealing with the struggle of providing for their children. As I’ve stated in a article before and much live Victoria said; until decision makers and politicians are directly affected by the overflow of violence in the these communities they will not empathize with them. There inability to empathize with these communities is reflected in the comment and decisions made.

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  6. Like Myah, I think that the photograph in this column should be sent to every politician that fails to push for stricter gun control laws. As the weather gets warmer, certain areas of Chicago have become war zones. The city has become numb to the violence – gun-related deaths over the weekend have become the norm and when the number killed stays below 3, the newspapers seem to deem it a “safer” weekend. Chicago’s response has been to heighten the police presence in these communities. I think that they are missing the point. Placing more police officers on the street is simply a Band-Aid for the problem. If we truly want to have an impact on violence, we need to tighten up gun control laws, increase the number of high-quality out-of-school options for children, and minimize the immense income inequality in our society. Targeting the root of violent crimes is the only way to prevent them.

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  7. Jessica CovingtonMay 1, 2014 at 7:56 PM

    This column was very overwhelming and upsetting. “We was having a party and then it’s a shooting.” This statement from Ka'nard Allen is frightening but very true. Many of our children are not safe in their very own neighborhoods, nor the comforts of their own home. What is there to do when you can't even feel safe in your neighborhood or home? Many politicians are not pushing the issue because it does not affect them or their families but yet this is a very pressing and disburbing issue. I found myself starring at the picture in shock and disbelief. Too many young children are leaving the world because of gun violence. If laws are set in place as they should be, we can eliminate this issue. As Jenny stated, we must taget the root of violent crimes for that is the only way to keep them from occuring.

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  8. Reading this column had me in a deep state of reflection as I am picturing all that has happened in this young man's life. To have to live through such a traumatic event is startling to me, considering the somewhat sheltered life that I have lived. I can only imagine how many other Ka'Nard's there are living in the world today. My heart breaks as he has to hold on to his mother telling her to get him from around here at the sound of bullets in the air. What is even sadder is the fact that a majority of the individuals doing the killings are young black men with low educational exposures. In an essence, this all goes full circle. What happens when a young man like Ka'Nard continues to be a victim of gun violence and exposed to its harmful affects? He then turns and drops out of school because of stress, depression, and premature signs of PTSD. His low educational achievement leaves him with few job options and now he must "turn to the streets" for survival. He then gets a gun in order to protect himself from thieves and to protect his mother. He could then end up shooting at a birthday party, and another situation like Ka'Nard's arises again. I wish I had the answer, but something must be done in order to stop these senseless acts of violence towards our children and our society.

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    1. What is even sadder is the fact that a majority of the individuals doing the killings are young black men with low educational exposures.
      Neffiee...

      I agree who hardly with this statement. Where I am from Oakland, California the gun violence has ran amuck, where the smallest slight - real or imagined - can result in someone pulling out a gun. At the middle school where I worked for the past three years, I witnessed young boys, carrying guns to school! One student was kick out the school in the 6th grade for bringing a gun to school, two years later as an 8th graders who was arrested for shooting someone across the street from our school. The danger of gun control is imminent and real where I live, and yes, these young men are doing the killings at an early age abruptly cutting short their opportunities for educational advancement.

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  9. I feel sick. This column brought me to tears. I could not bear looking at the picture of the little girl in her casket. Its a sad reality and reminder that gun violence takes that life of so many children and young people. This has to stop. We are not doing enough as a society to protect of kids. We need tougher gun control laws. When you think about black men being the perpetrators in most cases is one we must pay attention to. What can we do right now to impact the lives of young black men so that they understand they are loved and can use their anger and pain in positives ways. This let's me know the work we do in freedom schools is important and helps young people value who they are and gain conflict resolution skills as the same time.

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    1. After reading this article it makes me extremely sad but also hopeful. The fact that kids especially males look just like me and some are even more intellect have their lives taken from a gun is pointless and plain ignorant. We need to protect our children and I do not know the answer to getting guns off the streets but I think that it is possible to kept these innocent kids from dying in vain. I believe that peer mediation would be good and would definitely teach these children how to cope with their problems.

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  10. This column definitely brought me to tears and hit home! seeing the little one year old girl lying in the casket and her sister looking at her hurt me as if they were apart of my family. Something has to be done ASAP or gun violence will increase tremendously in our communities. I'm tired of turning on the news at night and all I see and hear is "Shot and killed" "Shots fired in local community" "Homicide" "Teenager dies after being shot" Enough is enough! What is it going to take for people to realize that gun violence is not the answer to solve problems. I am glad that I am apart of a program (Freedom Schools) that recognizes this serious issue within our communities and want to stand up and protect our children. My question is, how do we get majority of people on board to cease gun violence around the world?!

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  11. This article is heart breaking, stomach turning, and outright scary. The fact taht all of these tragedies occured in my state and no more than a 45 minute drive away from me is ridiculous. This column also makes me question the "why?" behind this senseless violince. I know the concepts or respect and retalliation were mentioned, but is that truly enough to snatch an innocent person's life? Even worse is taht these are children, infants even, whose lives are being stolen away. Not to mention the loved ones that are left behind to suffer and grieve over the lsot children and innocent famuily members. This is a small portion of why I'm interested in mental health counseling. Finding the source of this senseless violence to prevent it while helping emotional people cope with amd make strides towards healing.

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  12. too many children have gone through this experience. this article was hard to read and the picture really affected me. we as a community have to end gun violence. not sure what it will take when gang participation increases everyday as well as the mentality of these cold, heartless men and women affect our lively hood. The source has to be found so that we are not burying one year olds and adults a like who had nothing to do with these issues that cause gangs to kill or people in general.

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  13. The first that came to mind while reading the article is, “This is ridiculous.” The fact that a 10-year-old boy has been shot three times in his lifetime is ridiculous. The fact that anyone of any age should have those experiences is absurd and unfair. Reading these articles makes me appreciative of my childhood, but also upset that all children cannot enjoy the luxuries of an actual childhood.
    The president and CEO of The Children’s Bureau of New Orleans mentioned that the best thing for children who have experienced traumatic events is to keep them safe afterwards. How does a parent do that when their environment is constantly unsafe and surrounded by violence?

    While I was reading the article, it made think about the influence “nurture” has on an individual’s life. These children’s surroundings are growing them up in the ways of violence; they are becoming desensitized to the violence and making it an everyday norm. This violence is due to gun laws, but also a mindset.

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  14. The photo was very striking!! I am weeks away from moving to Chicago and everyone seems to be very concerned with my safety. So much so that I wonder if I should be a little concerned. While apartment searching, the leasing agent continued to mention that their play grounds and parks are gated and only residents are allowed in. I found that really interesting that you have to lock a playground and/or parks. But this is necessary because it can become easily infused with havoc activity. It's a scary world man!

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  15. This column was really tough. It is crazy that this has even happened, let alone to a 10-year-old. Tristan made some great points in her response that I completely agree with. How can we break this cycle? Children are continually being placed back into the environment that harmed them in the first place, it doesn't give them a chance to be out of the way of physical harm, or uncaring educators, or poverty. This goes back to our lawmakers and us voters. It comes back to education, available resources, and of course gun laws. Things like this will continue to happen to our young people until we can break this cycle.

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  16. The picture in this article is so disturbing. Like many of you have stated this is so sad that children have to be subject to really post traumatic stress symptoms from living in a crime infested neighborhood. I remember my first year as an SLI a man was killed right in his front lawn it was sad but, I never really felt connected until one of my scholars brought it up during a discussion. They had actually witnessed the man be shot and killed. My heart sank to my stomach how could a 1st grader witness something so traumatic! She spoke about how now loud noises now scare her. I immediately was connected to how this tragedy now directly affected me because it affected my scholar. I told her mother about some free counseling services but, I was just so disturbed at the fact that I even had to we need to speak up and keep our neighborhoods safe.

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  17. This article is heartbreaking. Seeing the picture along without even reading the article brings tears to my eyes. It’s so sad, even for a 1 year old, to see a 3 year old in a casket. I have never seen a casket that small before. That picture needs to be sent to every politician to show that there needs to be some kind of change in these gun laws. Like Jackie, the part in the article talking about retaliation struck a nerve with me. Too many times people want to retaliate when caused harm to people that had nothing to do with it in the first place. Drive by shoots kills too many innocent people, including children.

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  18. The picture itself is just heartbreaking and depressing. This article almost brought me to tears. It is so sad to know that a 3 year old girl had to experience the lost of her baby sister due to ignorant gun violence. It is also sad to know that this is a product of the United States Gun Laws. I am so tired of the "gun violence" conversations as well as the harm caused by guns. I am ready to see some action and ready to see the decrease in gun violence.

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  19. I agree with Collins, the picture alone was eerie. The moment I saw it, I wondered what could possibly be running through this young child's head as she looks up to her friend in a casket knowing they will never play with her again. It difficult to protect our children when the laws don't do the same. There should be no reason any citizen is on the street with an AK-47, that gun is too powerful for anyone untrained to handle. This article also hit close to home because in high school, I lost a close friend from gun violence. It rocked our school hard and it was difficult to move forward. Friends said he was caught in the middle of an incident and no one could understand why. I know how bad it hurts to loose someone close at a young age and I strongly believe no child should have to endure the same. I know that we should all be working hard to push for our gun control laws to become more strict, let's hope elected officials believe the same

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  20. I couldn't finish this article. I'm well aware that it has pertinent information about the help that is being offered to the community, but reading the first few paragraphs brought tears to my eyes. Majority of my jobs has included me working with children. They are my soft spot. Even though my tolerance for some of their antics may be low at times, at no point in my life could I nor would I ever do anything, or imagine doing anything, that would cause physical or deathly harm to a child (beatings as a punishment doesn't count). I don't understand how you can be so one-track minded that you don't care about the individuals in your surrounding area. Not agreeing with anything they do, but if you are aiming for an individual, wait until they are alone or something. Why not give our children a chance to enjoy their childhood? Wondering if you are going to make it through the day or night because you might get shot by a gun isn't something that our children should be worrying about. They're suppose to have a carefree life where their biggest concern is leaving their homework at home or Nikki not being their friend because of some childish reason.....this, this is the stuff that I can't mentally and emotionally deal with.

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  21. This article was heart breaking. Like Raquel, I was unable to finish reading the article because it was just too much. I can't even begin to imagine what life for these children must be like. There is so much fear and anger. The young man Ka'nard has been shot at a birthday party and a parade. Two events that are celebratory in nature were ruined by gun violence. It makes me wonder about the people committing these offenses. What brings them to do these things. How can you be ok with firing a weapon into a group of people attending a parade. How can you be ok with firing a weapon into a group of people, children included, that are attending a child's birthday party. This both angers and saddens me. I'm really just at a loss for words. This is really just too much.

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  22. This article reminds me of how much our gun laws need to change for the sake of our children. Marian Wright Edelman keeps telling us to "protect children, not guns", but because of the disillusionment that comes from being away from the physical places of trauma, people do not seem to realize the importance of following through. What will it take for our eyes to be opened? How many young lives have to be lost or threatened on a daily basis?

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  23. I think this article is one of the first articles that really got me emotional and touch a very soft spot in my heart. MWE speaks about gun violence a lot and the need for stricter laws but, this touch on the emotional no matter the color everyone can relate. I live in the city of Philadelphia where gun violence is a norm. I don't feel comfortable if I don't hear sirens at night. Gun violence where I lived took the life of my boyfriend and the lives of many other people that I know personally. Sometimes when I am home I make sure I don’t sleep near a window because of my fear. This gun thing lies deeper in just creating stricter gun law-this is a mental thing. We have to change people attitudes towards guns. Once we do that we can begin to change the behavior (action). If it isn’t a gun, it will be something else.

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  24. After reading this article the first question I asked myself was, where do we start? There are way too many children like Ka’nard in our country. Where can our children feel safe if not within their own community? Where do we even begin to address these issues? Do we start be trying to reach the senseless individuals who believe that they only way to solve issues is through bloodshed? Do we start on a federal level in an effort to revise policy around gun laws? Do we start within schools, exposing students to as many opportunities as possible before they are exposed to the streets? Where do we begin? How do we begin? These questions are pivotal in protecting our communities from senseless violence, of which I am not sure on the exact answer or how to answer it….thoughts?

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  25. No child should fear the environment in which he or she lives, especially because it's not that child's choice. The fact that I read this article just after a 9 year-old girl was shot 3 times in a drive by shooting makes this really hit home. But what makes it home even more is that the shooting happened 3 doors down from my elderly uncles and aunts, and that my father was at the traffic light about 10 houses down when it happened. My mind automatically raced to what would I have done if my father or my family members were hit by a bullet, but my next thought (and what should have been my first) was that poor girl and her family. Miraculously, the girl did not die, but if she did? She would have had a grieving mother, father, step-father, and siblings. She would have left behind a grieving classroom full of her friends. She would have left behind clothes, and shoes, and toys that would no longer know what it's like to be worn by her again. Where do we begin to end this? One of my friends asked me this very question as I saw him cry for the first time over the senseless death of his best friend from Morehouse. His friend was at a club which was fired upon. He happened to be the unlucky, unintentional target of the bullet. No one should have to know this pain. So, again I ask, where do we begin to end this?

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  26. This article reminds me of the children who attend the school where I educate. Many of them have ongoing behavioral problems, and of those who are "behavioral" quite a bit of them have suffered the loss of close family members due to gun violence. It is both physically exhausting and emotionally draining to feel a child's rage and anger as a result of his or her negative past experiences and current surroundings. The name of this article itself breaks my heart. It sounds a lot like some of the statements made in conversation with me by "behavioral" students who at the end of the school day did not look forward to going home. I empathize with the little boy in the article..."I can't".

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  27. How do we truly protect our children? Is it on the government? Is it on the parents, teachers, mentors etc.? I say its all of us. I don't understand yet how people could live so wildly that they not only endanger and harm others, but kill our babies. A year old baby should not have to be subjected to that kinda of brutality. Not an innocent life. To me, that's a very selfish lifestyle to live. To be so wrapped up in your own emotions and disregard the safety of a life so young and precious. We must continue to protect our children, not guns.

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  28. This has to be one of the impactful CWCs, especially the photo. We become so desensitized to the killings and gunshots in our neighborhoods, that I even brush it off and try to work harder in the work that I do. I can automatically say the impact it has on the youth, and why I do what I do. I realize that I do need to stop sometimes and reflect on how it is impacting me and my purpose so that I always remember the WHY.

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  29. You just never know what a child has been exposed to and how they have internalized it. Some children are open books about these things and others keep it in and it can turn into misbehavior in school and later depression. This is why the freedom school classroom is so essential as a safe space for children to be themselves. We as educators have to be aware of the signs children show when they do not feel safe.

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  30. This article was tough to read but unfortunately is a story that is repeating itself too many times. I mean if I were to count how many rest in peace shirts my students good made per year I lose count. This topic it's own one too many times so I'll just say that something has to be done.

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